July 29th: A Pairing You Ship but Not Your OTP
hmmm…are we allowed to do past pairings? because I ship Cecearl like nobody’s business, but not with current Cecil or Earl. just in the past.
if not past pairings, then Marcus/Jake, whatever that ship is called. I love shipping obscure characters who have been mentioned about three times total, it’s a thing.
jenaebatman yeah my grandparents are “roughing it” types and when I spent a few weeks with them a few years back it was constant commentary about how I couldn’t do anything and was useless because I have asthma and juvenile arthritis in my knees. It’s the worst, I mean, why would you even criticize someone for that? :L I’m hoping it’ll be better this time though.
paravillintiniay eke that’s rough, I’m sorry. :( I don’t see the point in that, I mean, I have a lot of strong beliefs and opinions but I would never let them affect how I treat people whose ideas differ.
paravillintiniay replied to your post “[[MOR] I still haven’t fully packed because I don’t want to drive…”
AWWW why are you going to do that?
I’m going to help my aunt move, but my grandparents are going to be there too and let’s just say some of my relatives are…well they’re the basically the stereotypical ultra-conservative type. and I’m not going to even have the internet to complain to and I’m going to miss Friendship Day with my best friend for the first time in 7 years, it’s just going to be kinda a bad trip.
I’m complaining so much though. it probably won’t be that bad, but in the midst of the fact I’m dealing with a whole bunch of personal stuff right now anyway, I’m kinda…less than excited.
I'm kind of the same way. But I mean I haven't had any romantic experiences in life yet so like, for the most part I'm straight because I just look at boys and I'm like "ooh he's a cutie" and that's basically it. But I really don't think I'd ever be like "I LOVE this girl. But she's a girl, I can't date her"
well it’s all fluid. it changes over time and with experience and whatnot. I’ve never had a romantic experience in my life yet either, and it wasn’t like one day I woke up like “hey I’m queer, lookit that”
I sorta just realized over time I was in love with one of my best friends who was a girl. and then I sorta sat down and thought about it and realized I could envision a future with literally anybody.
all this to say that it’s not something you have to determine now or in five years or ever if you don’t want to dwell too much. just keep an open mind and let love find you in whatever form. if you wind up straight, if you wind up panromantic and demisexual like me, if you wind up not even interested in romance - you do you. :)